You Made It!
The last two and a half years have been very tough for many of us. Many of us have lost loved ones and friends. Many of us lived with the simple hope of making it out of the pandemic alive and well. Thank God that we did! Now that you made it, now what? Now that we made it, we have to get back to our hopes and dreams of making our world a better place for us and the generations to follow.
Thomas Watson Sr. (no relation to me) was 40 when he took over as general manager of a little-known manufacturing company that processed meat slicers, time clocks, and simple tabulators. He had a dream and a vision for a machine that could process and store information before the computer became a reality. To move the company toward his dream and vision, he renamed the company International Business Machine Corporation or IBM. In an interview he would later give after the success of the company, he was asked, “What point did you envision the company becoming successful?” He simply responded, “At the very beginning”.
Thomas Watson Sr. had a dream that he turned into a reality. Vision begins with imagination, joined with the belief that the dream will come to fruition. This is what many of us call faith.
Helen Keller was asked in an interview what was worse than being blind. “Having eyesight and no vision,” she responded. Holocaust survivor, Viktor Frankl said to an audience he was speaking to, “What kept me alive in a situation where others had given up hope and died was the dream that someday I’d be here telling you how I survived the concentration camps.” His vision and dream allowed him to overcome the horrific concentration camps and share his experience with the world.
We must visualize our dream and see them unfold. We must become so dedicated to our dream and vision that we don’t let anything disrupt the goal of obtaining it. Our dreams open up the doors to our reality. Our futures must be dreamt before becoming reality.
The words, “I have a dream,” by Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. touched the hearts of millions of listeners and prompted a belief that anything was possible.
The power of dreaming or envisioning a better reality has been taught to athletes in the form of positive mental imagery to galvanize peak performance for years. Anticipating and dreaming of the future guides individuals toward that outcome, be it positive, or negative.
When we dream about our future and identify individuals living out similar dreams, it is critical that we get the full perspective on the journey they endured to accomplish their dreams.
I was recently asked in an interview, what is the number one factor that prevents others from reaching their dreams of success? I responded by stating:
Many people enjoy seeing and hearing about the success of others. Often times we hear all about the GLORY (what went well) of success; however, we don’t hear about the GRIT (what went wrong) of success. We don’t hear about the price that individuals had to pay to achieve success. Therefore, when many individuals say they want to achieve something- they do not know the GOOD, BAD, and UGLY of a person’s journey so they end up ill-prepared. Being ill-prepared prevents individuals from having the resilience needed to get beyond the many barriers that are a prerequisite to succeeding.
In fact, when I began my journey into the world of entrepreneurship, I spent time meeting with entrepreneurs who had been successful and those who had not been successful. The ones who had not been successful would say, “Tommy, I started my business, this went wrong, that went wrong, and that was enough for me. I stopped.” The person who was a successful entrepreneur said, “Tommy, I started my business, this went wrong, that went wrong, this went wrong again, that went wrong again, and I stayed with it. I kept going.” It did not take long for me to solely focus my meetings with only those entrepreneurs who had been successful.
(Read the interview in its entirety: http://dreamstothings.blogspot.com/2013/02/normal-0-false-false-false-en-us-ja-x.html)
Knowing the full story behind a person’s journey will keep us motivated to stay after that dream during times of GRIT and have a deeper appreciation during moments of GLORY.
Here are some questions to consider as you prepare to stay motivated to reach your dreams in 2022:
1. What makes your dream come alive for you?
2. What makes you yearn to fulfill your dream?
3. What three big accomplishments would make you feel as though you have come close to your dream in 2022?
4. Who are the people who will support you as you reach your dream in 2022?
5. What have you already started putting in place toward your dream in 2022?
6. What small pieces of your dream could you begin working on now?
7. If your dream were to become a reality today, how would it feel? What would you do to celebrate?
8. What makes you feel proud and capable to go after your dream in 2022?
(Orem, S., Binkert, J., Clancy, A., 2007. Appreciative Coaching)